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Say What Matters

By Sutton Burke, MS, LCPC ·

Some conversations are difficult because we don’t know what to say. Others are difficult because we know exactly what we need to say — and we’re afraid of what might happen if we say it. So we wait. We soften until the message disappears. Overexplain. Avoid. Shut down. Say yes when we mean no. Sutton explores what happens inside us when a conversation feels threatening and how emotional regulation, self-awareness, listening, boundaries, and repair can help us stay present enough to say what matters.

Sutton Burke, MS, LCPC

About the author

Sutton Burke, MS, LCPC

Sutton is an author, speaker and therapist, and the founder and Clinical Director of Infinite Mindcare in the Cayman Islands. She is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with advanced training in ACT, DBT, the Gottman Method, MBSR, ERP and psychedelic-assisted therapy.

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